Tuesday, February 8, 2011

A day in the life

I thought this day in my life required documenting.

Picture this, children playing contently, mother doing a little of this and that, nothing terribly important. Now picture one very cute two year old playing airplane around the living room and running in circles. Crashing. Flying. Crashing again. Giggles. All is well and good.

Until, this same little two year old starts to tell Mom that he's going on a trip. "Okay, " Mom says, "Just a pretend trip in the backyard? Okay?" You see where this is heading already I bet. Carter says, "Ya. I give you a kiss, Mom. I give Harrison a kiss." I should mention a favorite Thomas the Tank backpack was involved with the packing of a set of toy keys. Still, I'm thinking it's all the good pretend play of a two-yr old. Naive, I know. I tell him, "Go play in your toy car in the backyard and take a trip around the yard, stay in the backyard."

Well, as you can guess, he didn't stay in the backyard. I am hanging out in the dining room with Harrison for a bit and decide to check on him. I go to the back door and look outside......no Carter. I run to the garage and open the door.....no Carter. I run inside and look downstairs and upstairs......no Carter. I run out the front door......trying not to panic, but panicking.....CARTER!! Too the end of the block.....looking both ways.....CARTER!!!!

I run inside grab my keys. Bolt to the car and get into my car and start driving out of driveway, reach the end of the block.....Now, I realize I have no idea which way he went or what to think. I'm starting to cry, shake, oh dear, what should I do?

When to my surprise I see my neighbor and friend driving in her car headed toward me. I'm in full panic mode. She rolls down her window and I roll down my window, "Carter." She has him in her backseat. She tells me he was about 3 blocks away headed toward a very busy street. Gasp.

She then tells me that our other neighbor had been driving down the street and actually seen him walking very confidently down our driveway from the backyard and turned the corner and just kept walking. She thought it seemed a bit odd and rolled down her window and said, "Carter, hi." He said, "Hi."
He kept walking, "Carter, where are you going?"
"I'm going to daycamp."
Huh? At this point he's almost two blocks away.
"Where are you going?"
"I going to the airport."
She pulls over.
"Ummm, Carter do you want to get in my car?"
"Ya." He hops in.

Well, my good neighbor was good enough to grab him and is now running late to her appointment, but knows this situation was not headed to a good outcome. Meanwhile, my other neighbor was driving by and they transferred little Carter into her car and she headed over to my house and that's where we left me....remember, crying and panicking in the car.

Whew. She lets Carter out of her car, backpack still in hands. She tells me the story. Little stinker. More tears.

Moral of the story: Your two year may really be headed on a trip when he says so....regardless of what you think was fully explained and understood. Wishful thinking Mom.

He had a good little talking too. I told him I was scared and thought he was lost and a number of other things. He shuddered, literally. I think he got it. But, believe me I won't be taking any chances on "pretend trips" in the future.

Thank goodness for good friends and neighbors who are there to rescue your babies when you need them.

Oh ya, one more thing about that day. Harrison dropped my iPhone in the toilet. End of story. Some days are ones that just need to be recorded. Don't you think?

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Holiday season jumble

I realize I'm not doing a great job on the blog front. So, in an attempt to blog before I turn on the latest episode of American Idol (priorities, I know) here are random pictures from the holiday season in no particular order (translation, extremely out of order pictures).

We somehow made it to NYC with literally a
day's notice. I tagged along with Chris
while he did press stuff with Ed Smart.
So hectic, but I would never
pass up NYC at Christmas.



The boys had an awesome visit with Santa
before Christmas. Harrison rattled his
list off and didn't skip a beat.
Carter took notes on how to do
it for next year. Actually,
I should note that when we saw
Santa at The Gateway
Carter had to be torn away from
Santa because he wouldn't stop
repeating, "choo, choo" over
and over. I guess he figured
he should give Harrison a turn
this time. Santa was a hit this year!


The traditional gingerbread house
breaking on New Year's Day.
Stale candy and cookies anyone?


Our New Year's celebration, kid shot.


My friend Christine and I, we grew up
together and still see each other often.
She headed up a gourmet New Year's Eve
dinner. I don't think I would have
attempted it without her.


Traditional Christmas Eve jammies shot.


Oma and Uncle Chum cooking up an
amazing traditional Christmas
Italian dinner. If you haven't
noticed we like to eat around
here and we don't mess around.


A better shot of Harrison giving
Santa the download on
the swag list.


Preschool holiday program. Lots of
mumbling and the occasional glance up,
he's more of a sports guy anyways.


One final shot of the Christmas Tree at
Rockefeller Center.

Now on with 2011, it's already in full swing!

Friday, December 10, 2010

E. Smart verdict


Back in the year 2002 a few days after our first anniversary we were on vacation in So. Cal, we were settling down in our hotel room for the evening and watching the news about a 14 year old girl that had been abducted from her home not very far from our home in SLC. I distinctly remember saying out loud to Chris as we watched the coverage, "This is terrible, I wish there was something we could do to help them." I think we talked a little more about it, maybe Chris even told me there was a connection to the family in some way. But, I had no idea how this young women would dramatically impact our life. Chris left to fly back the next day while I continued my trip, when I came back Chris was already heavily involved in handling the media for the family.

Over the next nine months I saw my husband perform incredible feats to help the Smart family. I can honestly say I've never seen anyone work as hard as I saw Chris work. He was sleep deprived, emotionally drained, but completely loyal to the Smart family through it all. It was humbling to watch. For my part in it, I can honestly say I grew up during that time. I missed my husband terribly, but was also fiercely loyal about my husband's support of the family and the family in general. And now eight years later as I watched Elizabeth making her statement to the media after a guilty verdict was announced with Chris nearby in the background, I was so proud. I was proud of her and yes, also a little proud my dear husband.

Ready for Christmas

Are you ready for Christmas? I'm not, there I said it. I have no list that I have been working from, which for me is a major red flag. I haven't really settled on everything I'm doing, instead I'm just kinda letting it happen...I know, recipe for disaster. I'm at that point in the season where I have these occasional moment of realization that I may be in trouble and then I just go back to loading the dishwasher or whatever I had been doing before. Ya, I'm in trouble. So, if you run into a week from now and I can barely hold a conversation longer than two sentences before fidgeting, you'll know it's because I'm buried. If I'm lucky I'll get our Christmas cards out and gifts for the boys wrapped and ready. There you have it, my list. Wish me luck.

Friday, November 26, 2010

Thanksgiving 2010

It's been an interesting Thanksgiving. Oh don't worry, nothing too earth shaking, but it did involve a trip to the hospital which these days doesn't seem to be that out of the ordinary. Chris had his appendix taken out late Wednesday night and I insisted on staying with him (hopelessly devoted, I am). So, for the big Turkey Day I was sleep deprived and hungry and Chris was recovering and barely coherent. But regardless, we made our way over to my brother's house for a Thanksgiving feast. The boys were shamelessly starved for attention and enthusiastic about the prospect of a turkey dinner. So, it goes.

I have no pictures of the occasion because I was less than on top of it. No pies did I end up baking. No special recipes attempted, only me showing up at the door of my sister-in-laws house empty-handed and humble. Yes, grateful for my family and hopeful of a little entertainment for the boys and refuge for the holiday. It was wonderful, the whole lot of it. The food was wonderful and the company was comfortable. I loved it.

Thanksgiving has become a tender holiday for me since my mother's passing. She passed on the 20th of November, so soon follows Thanksgiving which has been a wonderful opportunity to reflect a little especially in the presence of my family....her family. Now that I'm home and still not sleeping tonight because of my poor husband's need for tending and my lack of sleep skills...I'm a little reflective. I'm thinking of each family member, our complicated and passionate whole and it makes me a little proud. I think I have a touch of her spirit with me tonight, thinking of them as she would've and I'm a little in awe. We are all the sum total of my parents which was solid, but at times a lethal and passionate combination. And so it's interesting to see how that shakes out a couple of generations down the line. The lethal part has died down to the occasional sting and the passionate part is alive and well in all the grandchildren (my boys make a good showing in that department). But, most of all we are a solid family making the best of whatever comes our way. I enjoyed talking with each family member individually and loved the group interaction just as much. Every once in awhile I would have impressions of my mother nearby as she always was during these occasions.

My father was also there probably missing her a little more than we were, but holding his own and weaving his influence over our heads. He slipped out early, which is his nature and as he did so he slipped me a crisp new hundred dollar bill which he hasn't done in awhile, but is a signature move on his part. He was born in the year 1929 which means "cash is king" for him and he really does think any other gift would be wasteful and useless. Honestly, I can only think of two other gifts other than money that he has ever given me; one being an opal ring I wore at my wedding and the other an electric meat carver that I will probably end up passing on to my children unless it breaks. He is quite a character and we're glad he has reclaimed all his vigor since my mother's passing 2 years ago.

It was a wonderful event and I am blessed to be a part of a family that is stamped in their own individual ways with the impressions of my mother and my father. They are wonderful examples of perseverance and dedication. My mother had a deep and abiding love of her Savior. She was an eternal optimist and a survivor. She always seemed to pull herself back up even when life sometimes leveled her even right up until the end. The last family meal we had with her was around the end of October, she hadn't been feeling well, but she received a special blessing from my brother at some point earlier that had helped immensely. Before the dinner she had gone upstairs, showered and dressed herself and was sitting upright at the table eating a little chicken noodle soup when I arrived. She was smiling and talking with everyone. I naively thought she could be on the mend. A few days later she could no longer make it up the stairs and within a couple of weeks she had passed. Now the thought of that episode reaffirms to me that she was an amazing woman, what a precious memory.

So, we are a great, big American family that enjoyed a day of comfort food and comfortable surroundings and we are blessed to be in the family that we are with a vast and unique cast of characters. Wouldn't trade it for another one, not today, not any day, no thanks. Wish me luck the rest of the weekend and hopefully I can somehow reclaim a little rest in the next few days. Ah, the life of a mother and wife. Another thing I wouldn't trade for anything. Happy Thanksgiving.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Posers


Enough about Oprah, I can't believe I haven't posted this picture earlier. By far, my favorite picture of the year. Are you ready for it? In case you're wondering where I came from and how my particular sense of humor got started....look no further. Among my siblings a while back we were goofing around and ended up with this beauty of a picture. Us trying to do some sort of model look. Well, models we are not, but a good time nonetheless.


Below is a little more refined pose of us all with our Dad when my sister came to visit from Oregon. But, the other one is still my favorite picture of the year, sorry.





Monday, October 25, 2010

Chicago in September


I have been a huge Oprah fan for years, yes, before the giveaways and before the celebrity parties. I remember watching her at my best friend's house with her mom after elementary school and I remember introducing my mom to her at my own house during high school. Oh, the discussions my mom and I would have over some of her more "complicated" shows! All good memories, so I was thrilled to be able to go to one of her shows for this farewell season of the show. It was a treat.


You couldn't take photos inside the studio and it was impressively tight security for a bunch of women dressed up in what Oprah called, their best "Easter Sunday morning" attire. Some think that she must specify for the audience to "dress up," but the only guidelines given in the confirmation form are to wear bright colors because they tape better for TV. It was an interesting crowd, everything from limos parked out front with beautiful wealthy women coming out to just your everyday Oprah fan base of mid-America, church-going women that felt like this was the highlight of their lives. Anyways, loved the people watching and the energy of the crowd. Chris was a good sport and luckily we tagged on to a couple that slightly resembled ourselves...he talked sports with Chris and she talked with me about all the endless possibilities for the show. Oh, I could go on and on, but I won't. Oprah was gracious and warm and I would do it again in a heartbeat.

We did get one free giveaway from the show, a bunch of nail polish and OPI products. Not quite the free car I was hoping for, but at least it wasn't one of her depressing shows. And afterwards, I totally made my way to the Oprah store and I am now the proud owner of an "O" hoodie and one of her active wear jackets. Chris was totally a good sport throughout the entire event and let's face it he was the one with the hook-up in the first place. Yes, it's true. Thank you. :)


Afterwards, we eventually made our way to a Cubs game. I guess you could say, Chris got his fix and I had mine.

A great trip.

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Waterfall!

Carter loves two things: waterfalls (which basically means any type of moving water) and his Aunt Amy. Here are a couple of pictures of them playing in the "waterfall" at downtown Gateway. Hmmm, how do I describe it though...really it's a water fountain that has bursts of water shooting out to music. Think Bellagio, okay, that's all I really needed to say. Anyways....

Please note prior to this day he wouldn't
even get close to the fountains.


I guess he just needed a little
extra attention from his Aunt.


Enjoying a moment discussing how
exciting it all is.


And the money shot. Wow,
yes, it IS just that exciting.

Thanks Amy for being a wonderful aunt that day...okay, everyday. :)


Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Magical World of...

you guessed it, Disney!!!

Yes, it's been a couple weeks since we made a special trip to Disneyland with our Oma. And it's taken about that long to recover! Whew, what a trip and wow, how tired was I when we got back! Right? I mean, that place moves fast and they sure know how to have a good time there. So, here's the Thomas rundown.


Flew in and dinner at Goofy's Kitchen. The boys were
in awe the whole time. So fun!

In case you're wondering? That's Aladdin,
wish it was Goofy or Mickey
or something, but Aladdin
was a pretty nice guy too and pretty
insistent on taking a picture with us. Guess he
needs to keep his job.


Fast forward to the next morning. But maybe
I should mention the wake-up call at
4AM I got from HJ, "Mom, is it morning yet?"
That's right, totally rested and ready to go
into the park. Couldn't contain himself,
soooo super duper excited.


First shot in the park, the whole bunch of us.
Evidently Chris's family took this same shot
when they came here as a family ages ago.


The fun began with "It's a Small World."
Harrison wasn't overly excited about it until he
went on "Pirates of the Carribean" and then he
decided he wanted to go back to his favorite
"castle boat ride" instead.
That's my sweet boy.


You could find Harrison and I both
around the park in our ears. Yes, I'm just
that cheesy, so what?


Pretty typical expressions from both brothers.


Happy boy.


Soothing the pain of "Pirates of the Caribbean" with suckers.


The iconic shot of the castle. Carter now thinks
many of the big buildings downtown are "castles."


Did you know that they have
fireworks every night
in Disneyland.
It IS a magical place!
The boys were in heaven, watching
from the hotel window before tucking
in for the night and also singing
"It's a Small World" several times.


Love this picture with Oma.


Can't help but love this picture of Karl and Tia.


Harrison wore his Mickey ears both days and
was totally adorable.


Driving a bumper car with Dad.


A "rollercoaster" that was just Carter's
speed and if I'm being honest mine too.


Lego Woody.

And we headed back home.


I have to mention that Carter has pretty much been obsessed with
Disneyland ever since the trip. The fireworks, the choo choo train, the cars, Mickey Mouse, on and on we talk it. Everyday we talk about going there and he has finally realized that he can't go there everyday on a whim like the park. Sadly, he has started to say, "Disneyland (Wiz-nee-land) far away."

What a sweet memory for the boys and a wonderful adventure with the family.
We had a blast! Thank you Oma!

Friday, September 10, 2010

For the love of food.

I'm so behind in posting, so let's just do a post that isn't really accomplishing anything of relevance. So how about my summer in pictures....of food that is.


Patriotic food.


After swimming food.


Mom's addicted to Red Mango kind of food.


Get together food.


Pretty food.


Disneyland food.


My dad would call it: Family "Steak fry" food.


Celebrate a baby food.

Okay, enough horsing around I've got some serious catching up to do in way of posting. Stay tuned...or not, whatever.

Friday, September 3, 2010

Still reflecting

I woke up this morning realizing I had a lot more to say about my post yesterday. I guess it is kinda a "reflections" week. You know, something happens and it all comes into rushing back and the distance between your own loss and the closeness of another makes you a little woozy from the waves. But, I hope that sharing my own thoughts here is not too selfish.

So, I was thinking about Chris. Wow, how lucky am I. I mean it's amazing how you get married and drag this other person through all your stuff and they're supposed to stand next to you and take it all on with you. I'm one of the lucky ones that found someone that doesn't even flinch when I take a blow. In fact, absorbs it with me and then works on making the adjustments needed before I even know I need them. You know, just takes it on. I have to say coming out on the other end that I...well, I don't know what to say except that I love him. He supported every move or lack of movement I made. He just let me be and he was the one that kept repeating, "Be patient with yourself..." Bless him, I needed that.

Let me give you a few examples, waking up in the middle of the night in tears. He was there. Understanding that in a household full of boys, I needed a little extra "girl time" to fill my aching void. Done. Finding the time to help "balance" out our lives, when our lives look like "balance" is a far off dream. Dream realized. And a host of other situations that were, I promise, no small feat in his already crazy busy world.

Anyways, there are so many other things I'm grateful for in the little need to share moment so I'll try and stop now. I'll return to breakfast with my boys and a heart full. Good morning.